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Make summer resolutions!

Q7UIKF58IRAs the school year draws to a close and we move into summer, it is great idea to make some summer resolutions focused on making your family a priority –  to spend more time together, have more conversations, and have fun together!

Think of resolutions that fit your family and your summer plans. Here are some ideas to get you started!

Delegate chores
Give your children specific chores that they can each be responsible for. They will feel helpful and you will appreciate the help!

Ask questions, listen and share!
Talk to your kids! Ask them about their school year and what they are looking forward to next year. Ask them what they are most excited about this summer. Share some stories from your childhood! Tell them about some of your great summer memories! Talk about the week, upcoming plans, and work out family problems.

Plan family trips
Whether you can get away together for an hour, a day, a weekend, or more, planning a family trip can help strengthen family bonds. Pick a place where you can explore and learn together, or a place that has special memories you can share.

Cook and eat together
Pick a recipe, go to the grocery store together, pick up the ingredients, and make a meal together! Spend time asking your kids about what cuisines they like and what they would enjoy making! Talk to your kids about the culture and traditions that correspond with the cuisine you are cooking. Then sit down together and enjoy the delicious meal you have made together!

Go for walks
A walk is a great way to calm down, clear your mind, and get some exercise together. You can talk with your kids about your day, about the community, or upcoming plans!

Volunteer
Speak with your kids and pick a community service project to get involved in together! Volunteering with your kids in the community will make you all feel great!

Play a game
Turn the TV off, turn your cell phones off, and pick out a game  – Scrabble, Risk, Pictionary, Monopoly, Stratego, Charades, Farkle, Go Fish, Uno, Connect Four, Twister, or another! Enjoy the time together!

Create a family night
Pick one night a week for family night. This is the night every week that you and your family get together to cook, bake, play a game, watch a movie, or enjoy another activity. If you stick with it, the family night could become a ritual and last through the next school year!

Make each child feel special.
Whether you have one kid or many, make a commitment to spend time doing something unique with each child. Whether it’s throwing a baseball, ice skating, painting, or something else your kids will feel important to you!

Make time for your spouse
Dedicate time to your partner. You are parents, but you are also friends and lovers and those relationships need time and nurturing! Schedule a date night for the two of you and have fun!

Celebrating our Damamli mothers

Damamli Digest May 2016-page-001We were excited to honor our young mothers from our Damamli Program at a special Mother’s Day Dinner held on May 11, 2015! At the event, each mother was recognized for the amazing parent that she is to her child, enjoyed a delicious Italian dinner catered by Squisito restaurant, received a special gift from the program, and received artwork created by their child.

Being in foster care is a challenge on it’s own, but being in foster care while charged with the important responsibility of raising a child is a task that can sometimes be overwhelming and often seem impossible, but our clients face this challenge every day and work hard to ensure that they are creating bright futures for their children, and for that we are so proud of them!

Great Thursday news about our Super Moms!

Damamli MomOur Damamli Mother-Baby clients have been working extremely hard on their goals and we would like to recognize their achievements.

  • Natalie – for starting a job at Forman Mills Department Store
  • Stephanie – for starting a job at Forman Mills Department Store
  • Brie -for starting a job at McDonald’s
  • Susie – for starting a job at Price Rite supermarket and completing a successful spring semester at Coppin State University
  • Lara – for starting a job at a temp agency, and applying for jobs at Giant and Aldi grocery stores
  • Samandra – for applying to Family Dollar and Giant supermarket
  • Brenda – for her upcoming high school graduation from Baltimore Academy
  • Melissa – for her upcoming high school graduation from Heritage High School

Our young mothers work hard as soon as they come into our care, to get in school and to get jobs. They understand the value of education and the importance  of making and saving money. The take every challenge head on and strive to learn life skills to be wonderful mothers for their children.

We currently have openings in both our Damamli Therapeutic Foster Care and Independent Living Programs! Please contact Program Administrator Jessica McKinnie, LCSW-C – to schedule an interview, she can be reached at: 443-864-5637 or jmckinnie@heartsandhomes.org

We need clothing racks! – Thank you TJ Maxx in Olney!

IMG_1064We shared our need for clothing racks only moments ago…

We said, “this picture speaks for itself and we need your help…”

TJ Maxx in Olney responded!

We are so grateful to TJ Maxx in Olney for lending us four racks to use this summer! We are so glad to have these racks to hang the beautiful dresses and suits that have been donated by the community so our youth can get dressed up for the Princess Party and Kings of Style Party this summer!

This is all thanks to our own Claudia Mercado who reached out to her friend, TJ Maxx Manager Will Ball! Thank you Claudia for requesting the racks, thank you Gary Jones for helping transport the racks to the main office, and thank you TJ Maxx in Olney!

 

To learn more about the Princess Party and Kings of Style Party, contact Vicki Valle at vicki@heartsandhomes.org

Lanigan Ryan Malcolm & Doyle PC Charity Golf Tournament

IMG_1075Hearts & Homes for Youth and Maryland Family Network were the beneficiaries On May 4, 2015 Lanigan Ryan Malcolm & Doyle PC‘s 23rd Annual Invitational Charity Golf Tournament at Argyle Country Club.

Hearts & Homes for Youth helps abused, homeless, and emotionally troubled youth through a variety of supportive programs, providing counseling, advocacy, educational support, workforce readiness, and life skills training. Maryland Family Network is an advocate and catalyst for the development of a strong system of quality child care, early education, and family support.

“We are grateful for Lanigan Ryan Malcolm & Doyle’s support to ensure that the young people in our care are provided with the tools, resources, and experiences they need to support their growth and development, help them get back on the right track, learn to live with independence, and pursue their goals,” said Caitlin Ward, Hearts & Homes’ Director of Community Relations.

“The more the public is aware of the impact of safe and supportive homes and services for emotionally troubled and victimized youth, the greater impact our advocacy efforts will have on the state and national level to increase access to our programs.”

Lanigan Ryan Malcolm & Doyle has sponsored the Annual Invitational Charity Golf Tournament for the past 23 years. Each year a different charitable organization is chosen as the recipient of the proceeds from the event. Hearts & Homes is grateful to have been chosen as one of the charities of choice. Hearts & Homes staff enjoyed the successful event and participating in the event.

Kemp Mill climbs to practice mindfulness!

20150412_131410The focus of Mental Health Awareness week is mindfulness and at Hearts & Homes, we believe recreational activities are a great way to practice mindfulness. Recently our young men from Kemp Mill went rock climbing. The challenging and leisurely sport is a great way to give your mind and body a workout, practice listening to your body, and clear your mind.

Recreational activities are vital for the health of body and mind. We regularly provide the youth with recreational activities such as sport training, group games, going to the gym, and other activities. The various recreational activities help youth learn how to deal with stress, learn how to participate in organized activity, develop confidence, improve coordination, get a positive self-image, and recognize positive lifestyle choices.

If you ever have trouble dealing with stress, we recommend getting some fresh air, take a walk, and if you can, go rock climbing and you might reach new heights.

What’s going on at Avis Birely Group Home?

Back to School Picnic (3) We have some great news to share about the residents and staff at Avis Birely Group Home for Boys! We all know how important recreational activity is for the mind and body and in April, the young men at Avis Birely began a new activity that will continue through summer! The residents are participating in boxing lessons at a nearby Boxing Gym. The youth are being trained by the owner who is also providing lessons of discipline and self-control. In addition to getting a hard core workout, the young men are learning how to take out their stresses in a safe, controlled environment. They are also improving coordination, body awareness, confidence, and self-esteem!

We are proud to report that Avis Birely has a new Acting Senior Counselor, Mr. Ronald Lilley who has been promoted from counselor at Avis Birely, where he has worked since his date of hire. Mr. Ronald is reliable, dependable and well-respected by the residents and his colleagues. He regularly displays outstanding leadership qualities. In his new role Mr. Ronald will continue to be one of the many faces of the program representing Avis Birely and Hearts & Homes in the community, and provide support and guidance to both the staff and our youth. 

Individually, the youth at Avis Birely have a lot to be proud of. For example, Jesse entered Avis Birely with a history of truancy. He currently is in 10th grade and has zero unexcused absences. Jesse attends school each day and is well liked by his teachers. He currently has a chronic health disorder that he is receiving treatment for. Jesse is expected to be successfully discharged from the program at the end of the school year in June. To assist with a seamless transition home, staff at Avis Birely have put together a comprehensive health plan that includes physicians and specialists in his area who will be able to follow up with his treatment when he returns home to Baltimore.

Wally is from Montgomery County, he has been attending a local school, playing recreational basketball, and conditioning for the upcoming football recreation summer league as quarterback. Wally earned a 3.4 GPA this past quarter. Wally is making great progress in the program and is expected to return home this upcoming summer.

Justin entered Avis Birely with family issues. Through family therapy facilitated by Avis Birely’s Social Worker, Justin has been working on improving his relations with family members. He has been going home on the weekends over the past two months and each visit has been successful. Justin’s mother has also learned how to provide some support to Justin, to assist him with de-escalation. Justin is making great progress in our program. 

Chris has a history of being bullied and as a result, he has been taking out his frustrations and anger on other people at school. Chris has been receiving encouragement and support from a residential peer regarding self-esteem and as a result, his behaviors are improving. He and some of his peers were recently recognized by their school for their behavior improvements and were taken on a REWARDS trip to Sugar Loaf Mountain.

James, a newer resident, has begun school in May. He was initially resistant but after attending his first day, he had a change of heart. He currently is working on his anger management with the clinical team at Avis Birely.

Good news Friday – A story to brighten your day!

FridayNatalie, a young woman at Helen Smith Group Home for Girls has a lot to be proud of! She is completing her first semester at Montgomery College! Staff at Helen Smith are helping her register for summer courses and encouraging her to seek out groups and activities offered by the college to continue to develop her social skills and sense of belonging in the community.

Natalie is excited about school and the possibility of moving into an independent living program. We are so proud of her progress since she first came into our home and glad she is proud of herself!

We hope you have a great weekend!

Celebrating our youth’s accomplishments!

We have some great news to share from John C. Tracey Group Home! One of the young residents has been working hard to complete a certificate program at Richard Montgomery High School. In addition to his studies, the young man is completing community service in order to obtain the required work site hours needed for graduation. We are excited to confirm that he will be graduating with his peers this June!

At Kemp Mill, David N. has improved with his grades in school and completed his 6-month Substance Abuse Class. Steven has improved his grades, which makes him eligible to be the starting Varsity QB for his high school! Justin has transitioned back into his school without any issues and actively participates in family counseling with his mother and brother. Trevor is maintaining good grades at his high school and is expected to be successfully discharged at the end of the school year. Joseph has improved his grades after falling behind. He is proud of his personal diet and weight loss and is expected to be successfully discharged mid-summer. Curt is new to the program and began school recently.

At Mary’s Mount Manor for Girls, five out of eight of the young residents have grade point averages above 3.0! One of the young residents will be discharged upon graduation with June. She has a 4.0 and a job at a local business.

Growth  The act or process, or a manner of growing; development; gradual increase.”

The Program Manager at Marys Mount says that “Paige represents the very definition of the word growth. I have watched her development over the last three and a half months, and could not be more proud of the young woman she is becoming. She has come a long way and has shown that her change is for the better. She will be missed, but her departure is necessary for her to continue to grow.”

We are proud of all of the youth in our care for all of their accomplishments!

Advice from youth on how to keep your cool

In celebration of Mental Health Awareness Week, we asked our youth at Harriet Tubman Emergency Shelter to give us some ideas on how to keep your cool in frustrating and stressful situations. Check out their tips!

  1. Go for a walk, the fresh air will clear your mind
  2. Count to ten
  3. Take ten to twenty deep breaths
  4. Talk to a friend, your parents, or someone else close to you
  5. Take a nap
  6. Do something that you enjoy like listen to some music or play a video game
  7. Sort your thoughts out and get done what you need to do
  8. Sit down and focus on your breathing
  9. Isolate yourself for a little bit and return to the people or problem when you are calm and ready
  10. Don’t let things get to you, everything is a choice

We are proud of the great advice from our young men and hope one of tips works for you!