The ladies in Hearts & Homes’ Damamli (Young Mother) Independent Living Program (ILP) knew that there were some very special guests coming to see them on the evening of September 21st but had no idea the impact that these guests would have on them.
This was the first night of an ILP group series focused on Domestic Violence and our presenter Sergeant Stephanie Wall entered the room wearing her police uniform with her colleague Officer Bonita Linkins, who was dressed in plain clothes. The ladies were attempting to figure out why the police were at group tonight and didn’t say much.
Sergeant Wall and Officer Linkins began by greeting the ladies, asking them to share their names, and talk about their children. Then both women shared their stories of their personal experience with domestic violence and that they are both survivors. The young mothers were touched, inspired, and most of all shocked. Many of them expressed that they would have NEVER guessed based on how these beautifully poised women looked that they were domestic violence survivors.
Our young mothers learned a lot from the strong women who spent time with them that night. They learned that you can grow beyond what is now and make a beautiful ending, no matter where you started from. They were reminded of the importance of being aware of the decisions you make and how they will affect your children. They discussed the importance of positive self talk, and to not only pay attention to the way people talk to you and treat you, but also pay attention to the way you talk to yourself and treat yourself. The officers also told the young mothers about resources available to help survivors of domestic violence feel safe and heal.
Sergeant Wall left the ladies with this thought: “Look beyond what you can see, and focus on what you can imagine”.
“We are grateful for the time Sergeant Wall and Officer Linkins shared with us and cannot thank them enough,” said Damamli Chief Administrator Jessica McKinnie. “We plan to continue to work together with the officers to positively impact the lives of our young ladies”